If you are married and living with your spouse, most benefit programs count the income and resources of both you and your spouse when determining eligibility. You and your spouse are living together, if both of you live in the same household. The income and resources of both you and your spouse are counted, regardless of whether one or both of you are filing for benefits. You are still considered to be living together, if you or your spouse are temporarily absent from the household due to treatment in a hospital or nursing home.